JUST SAY IT LIKE IT IS!

You know when you are supposed to see someone and then something like a tsunami happens? I mean it doesn't literally happen but there's that moment when you know it won't happen, just like every other time you are supposed to hang? Yeah that…what do you do when that happens? You make better plans!!! But when do you say enough is enough and no longer put any energy or effort into your relationship? Like when do you realize you are a good friend to a person who's not such a good friend to you? When do you just say it like it is, and how? On a completely other note... The Holiday seasons hard for so many people, it's like a double edged sword. You love all of the holiday decorations and music but the reality is the Holiday is hard. Putting family together all the time, spending more money than you want to admit and then making a ton of plans with friends and family to pack it all into that week between Christmas and New Years. You eat things you don't want to eat for another 12 months, you drink more than your liver can take…all the while putting on a happy face while doing it. Ironically people are more depressed during this time than any other time a year…and the worst is Jan. to March, might as well hang it up and hibernate until the spring b/c it's the fucking WORST!! Add in the snow, freezing temps and all around shitty weather and you have the post-holiday blues. On that note, we are off to 2 best friends today/tonight b/c you know there's nothing like packing it all in:) HAPPY HOLIDAYS! XOXO BTC