SOME PEOPLE NEVER CHANGE...

You know they say some people can change, part of me wants to believe that, but for some they just cannot change. In relationships, whether they are about love, friendship whatever...it's all about the give and take. You give 50% you get 50%. I have SUCH an issue with friends who have some sort of self "motive." I am thankful that my BEST girlfriends' are just like that. It took YEARS for me to realize that I did not have to try and fit into a mold, I could just finds girls that were more like me. It's not quantity it's quality. I am thankful for the ones I can go to no matter what my issue is, big or small! You can't choose your family but you CAN choose your friends:) HOLLA! xoxo BTC

Things can change on a dime...

My lovely nanny came in this morning telling me about her cousin, who died suddenly when a tree fell on his car. Now THAT puts it all in perspective doesn't it? I sometimes sweat the small stuff, who doesn't but at the end of the day it's so small compared to REAL life problems. I have to remind myself that I have a roof over my head, food on my table, family and friends that I love and count on; and that's just to name a few.

I am taking this moment to be incredibly thankful for all that I have, and hope in some way in my lifetime I can give to those who don't have what I am privileged to enjoy.

Tomorrow could be a really big day, a day that helps propel something I have been working on for YEARS now. All I can do is hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. In the end, if it does not happen I have counted my blessings for the things that I do have.

Food for though, why on earth I am so philosophical without any type of mind altering substance, at this very moment is so beyond me.

LUV!
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Gotta love a journalist like this!

http://jezebel.com/5903524/getting-measles-trendy-among-babies-whose-asshole-parents-didnt-vaccinate-them

NUFF SAID.

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OH

and margaritas are SO underrated. I am not quite sure who or what came up with the tequila but it is the MOST delicious, game changing nectar.

MMMMMMMMMM MMMM GOOOOD!
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PARENTAL ROAD BLOCKS!

How do you deal with parents that you are either friends or family that don't parent REMOTELY like you? You can't really get rid of them, nor do you want to...but you do want them to think a little bit more like you? WHY? I guess case in point is you don't want your kids feelings to get hurt, and if they difference in parenting is that extreme I think that's one of the things that can happen.

I am not sure how to deal with those kinds of things, b/c it's not like I am THE best parent...or that only my way works, I just know the other way does not. I do like that the majority of my friends parent their kids like we do; it makes for a much more comfortable environment when we are all together. I guess the ones that don't you just have to limit the amount of time the kids spend together? At some point as the kids do get older, they may not like each other..or get along, so that's something I am sure a lot of people face; but at the same time I hate to think it could be like that when we love getting all of the kids together!

WHAT to do if it's family?? UGH I don't know but if you do, give me a ring!

CIAO!
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Life is a highway...

Sometimes you are just not sure what direction life may take you. What path you are supposed to walk down, and who is going to walk down that path with you. One day you wake up and you are one place, and the next you are about to embark on an entirely different journey; do you jump (into something new), or stay stuck in that same rut?

I am not sure what to do, but for tonight...I am going to drink myself to sleep, with no food.
That's just for tonight.

XOXO
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