THOMAS-COHEN

My name is Thomas Cohen, without the fucking -. BUT it is really amazing to see peoples faces when they meet me...and only know me via email; hence without the face! I mean, there is a LARGE part of me that gets it...in walks the Black girl, but her last name is Cohen (the Jew). HA! It's amazing now you can't even tell anymore, what anyone is...it's actually extremely liberating if you ask me! My kids will no longer be THE ONES who are different like I was, and that's so amazing to think. They will go to school no matter where we live, knowing someone else who is mixed. I could count on one hand, and really out of that hand one of them happens to STILL be one of my best friends. Anyway, it's hump day...going to leave the office a bit early, take Jess (from my office) and sit outside with a COLD glass of wine. I know I deserve it and so does she...WORD UP! XOXO BTC

DELINQUENT!

I am sorry to say I REALLY have been a delinquent on my blog. Just insane...b/c we have made the FOR SURE decision to get the hell outta dodge! NJ here we come! We will be officially moving on Sept. 3rd, but in my head we are already 1/2 way there. I am sad and excited at the same time, I know it was or is the best decision for my kids. NONE the less I think I did mention it, but now it's just painting, and redoing and organizing and all that stuff; on TOP of the business...OH and Brian is away the entire week (conveniently). It's that day again, "Terrible Tuesday" and it is rearing its ugly head like no other, already! I already screamed at someone and it's only 10:40 AM in NYC, ugh not good. We cleaned a fair amount of crap out old pics, old childhood stuff and it's weird to think I am this old...and will be even an year OLDER in about 4 weeks, WTF. Where on earth does the time go? XOXO BTC

MEN AND THEIR PUSSY....CATS?!?!?!?

How do men honestly feel the same way about their woman, post birth. I mean, including my man...he's gotta look at it differently, I mean shit I do! It's a strange question, one I don't even think I can tackle! It's Thursday, hence why my mins is THAT much more creative! Check this out...I could not even make this shit up if I tried, and really this is shit people think but don't DO! HA! XOXO BTC

UM IT'S HAPPENING...GULP

We are officially leaving NYC. Writing that was MAD weird, but if I write it and say it then I know it's true! Amazing to think it's an end of an era but it TOTALLY is. I have not lived in the burbs since 1998, that's INSANITY!! I welcome the challenge and also the fresh air, and for so many reasons it's the best for the kids! I cried and cried and then woke up one day realizing that it's going to be GREAT! Brian asked me what I would miss most and here is what I could not list then (for some reason) but am able to list now: 1.The vibe, the energy the people 2. The ease in which you can go out to eat, drink at a different bar, walk to those places AND top it off with ice cream and it is all right next to each other 3. The cultural diversity (MY FAV PART), I will REALLY miss that moving to the burbs! 4. The food, the drinks, the HOT ass pieces walking past me everyday 5.The fact that we were just far enough from people yet so close Those are my top 5, will come up with an additional list next post:) NIGHTY NIGHT! XOXO BTC

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but I will continue to write on here too...of course:)

MAKING A BOLD MOVE... http://www.tumblr.com/blog/shitpeoplethinkbutdontsay/

I AM MOVING TO TUMBLER!! CHECK IT OUT, AND FIND ME THERE...FOR MORE FUCKED UP VIEWS ON HOW I SEE THE WORLD:) http://www.tumblr.com/blog/shitpeoplethinkbutdontsay/ PEACE! XOXO BTC

"SO WON'T THE REAL SLIM SHADY PLEASE STAND UP, PLEASE STAND UP..."

What is it about shady people, that makes my head want to explode! I think one MAIN reason is I like people to just be upfront about things...and when they are not, it's just plain shady! There are so many people in the world of fashion who just want to get ahead, and in doing that very few do it gracefully. The ones that do I would hope succeed, the ones that do not...I hope don't. I had a client bold face lie to me, literally lie to my face for no reason. To THEN proceed to get caught, b/c I am too well connected to the world of editorial. People talk, it happens and they would really know that. On another note, we have decided to leave NYC. It's a LONG time coming (and even longer if you have been reading this blog for a while:), but we know it's the right decision, hands down. The kids will have a yard, they will walk to school, enjoy the fresh-air and the downtime, etc. We won't have to worry about a ridiculous amount to spend on pre-school, who gets in where and why, etc. It's a BIG step, I have and will continue to cry about it, but have big hopes and big dreams for my girls:) Hope everyone is having a lovely "Terrible Tuesday!" xoxo BTC